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Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Love Yourself First

You can't love someone else until you first learn to love yourself. Why do you need to love yourself first? Love yourself, is the greatest love of all. Well so that you love and appreciate yourself more. So that you will be value more by others. So that you would be happier and make those who around you happier.

You know what? Screw that! The most boring person in the world is those who love themselves first!

As much as I wanted to believe in loving myself first, we all know we did all things because of someone else. It's never mind if that someone else is your parents, spouses, children, family or even friends. So we are actually can't love ourselves before we first learn how to love someone else.

Face it, we all do something because of someone else, this include to love ourselves.

Well, you took up that course just because your parents want you to be somebody someday. Well so that they could be proudly announce you as an engineer in front of their siblings who obviously doing the same thing on their children.

You stop speeding just because you are not driving alone and that someone's life is on your hand. At the same time, speeding would cost you RM300 ticket once you get caught. Oh, yea, that's a lot.

Girls spent thousands on make up, facial, clothes and accessories monthly, just because of the loved ones.

Well, I started to take good care of myself because of my dear.

See here, the reason you love yourself is because of you love that other person first.

And I really wonder why do some 'guru's find that writing a love letter to themselves, and tell how much they love themselves would do any better. Well this goes the same to those who send flowers to themselves on Valentine's Day or Birthday. That's so pathetic. If nobody else want to send a letter to you, fine, live with it! If nobody care enough to give you any present on Valentine's Day, live with it! Seriously you don't have to waste that kind of money and feeling down for the rest of the month for being poor. Roses and chocolates aren't cheap on Valentine.

BLACKandWHITE Wednesday, August 05, 2009